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Nollywood star actress Genevieve Nnaji say’s
she is yet to get married because she yet to see
a man that can forgive her doings.
According to her, she says: “As for marriage,
it’s every woman’s dream to get married. We
can’t lie to ourselves. I do want to get married
but overtime I have had opportunities to get
married but I realize getting married is not
actually the problem.
The problem is finding someone you are
compatible with because I’m born Catholic, I’m
raised Catholic, I don’t believe in divorce. If I
get married, I really want to stay married and
staying married is not an easy thing. It
means you are completely in tune with your
partner. It means you’ve found your soul mate
because you’ll have to be able to stand a lot of
disappointments that would definitely come
but then again you have to learn to forgive.
For me, before I choose a partner I have to ask
myself if this is the kind of person I would be
willing to forgive no matter what when the
time comes. If the answer is no, then that
person is wrong for me. That person is not the
person you want to get married to. If you
know you can look into someone’s eyes and
say yes, this is the most you can do to me. If
you actually cheat on me the first time, I can
find it in my heart to forgive you.
If you can answer that question honestly and
truthfully to yourself then you’ll know if that
person is your partner or not. So compatibility
is the word aside from the physical attributes
that have to go with it. I need to be
comfortable because I’m a woman
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